Do not help me, even if it does make you feel good.  Ask if I need your help.  Let me show you how you can best assist me. 

Do not admire me.  A desire to live a full life does not warrant adoration.  Respect me, for respect presumes equity. 

Do not tell, correct, and lead.  Listen, Support, and Follow. 

Do not work on me.  Work with me. 

Written and Produced by Norman Kunc & Emma Van de Klift, Axis Consultation and Training,  Nanaimo, British Columbia.